纠缠（及物动词）

(transitive verb) To make persistent, annoying requests.

EXAMPLE: My aunt importunes me to give her hostile, lazy son a good job in my company, but I continually refuse.

我的姑妈缠着我，要我在我的公司里给她的待人不友善又懒惰的儿子安排一个好工作，但是我一直拒绝。

不能共患难的朋友

A person who is friendly only in good situations, but who cannot be relied upon in times of trouble or misfortune. (NOTE: "fair" in this usage means "mild, pleasant")

EXAMPLE: My office coworker is a fair-weather friend who will not support me in any disagreement with our boss.

我的办公室同事是不能共患难的朋友，我跟老板发生任何分歧，他都不会支持我。